Hello Happy People or people who want to become happy people. I am a big fan of guest posts as I think you guess might get annoyed of my texts đ So, I am happy that my good friend Xenia from PowerPeakPassion was free to write this post about Happiness <3
When I was 17, I was often (too often) concerned about how I looked. It was the only thing that mattered to me â but who wonât look as good as all the beautiful women on the covers?
I wanted it so much that I mortified my body more than I cared and appreciated it. I gave myself a dozen prohibitions. You must not eat this, you must not do that⊠But I do not want to tell you all the things I did, itâs not what this blog post is about!
If I think back how many times I was dying of sorrow and how unhappy I was because of how I looked turns me off! That canât be for real!
Most people put self-denial on a level with success â without any prohibitions, you canât achieve a significant success! Is this really true? Is the only way to be happy to look good and therefore impose thousands of bans on itself? I hope not!!!
Yes, I write about sports, nutrition and the appearance. But itâs not just about the appearance and how you look. For sure â I still love having a sixpack â but I also made peace with my stocky legs (granted â not always the same every day but these days are becoming rarer). BUT, and this is really important to me: The six pack is only a nice side effect! Itâs about how you feel in your own body if you nourish your body properly and if you work out regularly.
The six pack is only a side effect!
The best example in my personal story is my trip to the States. Before I started the road trip I had (once again) a dropout. I had the feeling that I need to lose some pounds before I go. The result of it: I had so many cravings that I ate way more than my body actually needed. And I donât talk about too many vegetables or fruits I mean way too much B&J, chocolate and pizza⊠my training â horrible. Because of all the unhealthy food I felt tired and bloated. I wasnât powerful during my sessions. The goal to lose some pounds before my vacations â failed. When we arrived in America I decided to jettison all my bans and started to eat and exercise ânormalâ (normal for me). The results of this decision â I was happy, I haven’t had any cravings (because I haven’t had any bans), I was on good terms with myself and the extra pounds disappeared.
Itâs about being happy!
What I want to say with this post is, I firmly believe that nothing works if you arenât happy. If youâre happy with your bans â âGo for it!â â I am not.
For me there is absolutely no point in strict rules and prohibitions that reduce my/your âjoie de vivreâ. Life is too short to not be happy. Nourish your body so that itâs fun and you feel great. Find the kind of sport you love. Everything else makes no sense!
So ein schöner Beitrag! <3